A Mom Of Four Documents Her Postpartum Body And Learns To Honor It

Sarah Nicole Landry is a mother of four young children who went from sharing her experience in a blog to inspiring so many women that she became an entrepreneur.

Nicole's success comes from her ability to be completely raw and vulnerable, to admit her defeat and to still stay optimistic in her postpartum journey. From her good days where she embraces every stretch mark to her bad days where all she could do was cry, she's not afraid to share every moment.

It Took Her EIGHT Years To Love Her Body Again

Nicole has taken a big step in admitting that postpartum isn't just something that happens for the first few months after giving birth. It's a difficult process that can take years to get through.

For her, it took her eight years to not cry when she saw her own body. She realized the first step is to stop dismissing the way you feel.

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Pregnancy Means Saying Goodbye To Old Jeans, And That's Okay

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When having a baby, your whole world changes. You now have an extra human living with you. That also unleashes a chain reaction of changes in every aspect of your life, so why should your old jeans be an exception?

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Your clothes don't fit you anymore because your old lifestyle doesn't fit you anymore. All it means is that you now need the jeans that best serve you now.

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The Stillness When The Celebrations Quiet Down

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It takes some women some time before they actually touch in with themselves and realize how they feel postpartum. At first, the celebration and the flow of attention from others distracts and takes up all their time.

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Then, when it finally gets quiet again and it's just them and their baby, the feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even depression can settle in.

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Honor The Body, Not Just The Fruits Of Its Labor

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Nicole offers a refreshing perspective when it comes to honoring the postpartum body. She says that a woman's body isn't a pot meant to produce a pretty flower.

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A flower, just like a baby, can't grow without good soil, or a healthy body. The soil in which the flower grows is just as important, as the flower wouldn't exist without it.

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The Body Is Constantly Changing Anyway

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Women might love their body one minute and fight it the next, but just like their feelings are always changing, so is the body itself.

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It's not the same as yesterday, and it won't be the same as tomorrow, so that makes it always temporary. Why dwell on something that's about to change anyway?

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Why She Decided To Make Herself Vulnerable To The World

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Although, as you have seen, her posts are raw and inspiring, they couldn't have been easy to share. It's hard enough to open up about our insecurities to those close to us, let alone the whole world.

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Nicole explains that she does it because 15 years ago, when she gave birth for the first time and saw the aftermath, she felt ashamed. She wishes that someone like her was there to show her that it was normal and actually beautiful.

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She Came To Terms With Stretch Marks

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One of the most salient aspects of postpartum bodies that women deal with is the number of evident stretch marks. No amount of cream and oil can hide them, and they feel as though that ruins how they look.

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However, posts like these break up even the science behind it. It shows that everyone can have them, not just from pregnancy. This ends up normalizing them.

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She Reassures Us That It's OK To Miss The Body You Once Had

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While some new moms feel guilty for missing their pre-pregnancy bodies, Nicole reassures them that it's okay. It's even okay to miss their lives before the baby came. This doesn't make them bad moms, but simply human.

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She writes poetically that motherhood is emotionally messy. One minute you miss the quiet, and the next the chaos. "Because you have always wanted both. Even if both is messy."

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The Process Doesn't Have A Deadline

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The biggest takeaway from Nicole's journey is that there is no deadline on healing, and that it's a separate experience from parenting. How long it takes to love your body postpartum has nothing to do with your ability as a mother.

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However, there will be a time when they'll finally be able to thank their bodies again.

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And It's OK To Not Feel OK, Even As A Mother

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More importantly, the postpartum journey isn't one that mothers have to take alone. It's okay to ask for help and support. It's okay to have bad days. The effects of such hard labor on the body on mental health are real.

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But, with the right support network, the healing will come at its own pace.

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These Women Are Changing The Way We See Postpartum Bodies

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When five-time mom Brenda Stearns posted this, she didn't just shout out the postpartum moms struggling with body positivity. She shared: "Puberty, pregnancy, postpartum, menopause... whatever stage you're experiencing right now, I hope you enjoy the miracle of your changing body."

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A woman's body will go through changes so many times in her life. Whether those changes are specific actions or if they are the result of hormones or a growing baby, acceptance will make the changes exciting.

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It's Not All About The 'Likes'

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Mom of three Hayley Garnett has been a strong advocate of loving your postpartum body since she had her fraternal twins. Hayley frequently posts shots like this on Instagram with the hope they normalize postpartum bodies.

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Still, she shared on this photo that some people think photos like that are just "for the likes." Hayley quickly shut that down by saying that she shares her skin for herself, for her daughters, and for anyone struggling with body acceptance.

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There Are Good Days And Bad Days

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New mom Tori McCain posted this postpartum selfie but admitted it wasn't easy. Being body positive is a decision she had to make and had to continue to make every single day. Tori doesn't fake it though. In the post, she admitted: "I'm not going to sit here and pretend like I still don't struggle with myself."

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Despite having good days and bad days, Tori reiterated that "Just because your body has changed doesn't mean your worth has changed."

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Moms Don't Always Go Into Pregnancy Feeling Confident

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Meg Boggs runs a body positivity page, but in this close-up shot of her stretch marks, she admitted that her struggle began long before she ever got pregnant. Like many other moms out there, Meg outlined how she watched her skin stretch and shrivel through dieting and other health issues long before ever having a child.

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Then once she gave birth, it happened all over again. It just goes to show that postpartum bodies aren't always made over only nine months.

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It Took Three Kids For Sarah To Accept Her Body

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Sarah is a mom of three who didn't fully accept her body until after her third child. When she posted this candid postpartum snap, Sarah told her story of how she pushed her body to the limit after her first two pregnancies.

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Sarah even admitted that she got "this ugly tattoo" to cover up her stretch marks. At one point, she only weighed 90 pounds. Finally, Sarah admitted that after her third child she realized that she was hiding her sadness with her body insecurities.

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The Perfect Belly For Little Hands To Play With

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Kara is a mom of twins who shared this photo of her postpartum belly nine months after giving birth. Kara told her followers that yes, some days she struggles to "look in the mirror and show my body appreciation" but the innocence of her children's curiosity changes her mind.

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Along with the photo she posted: "My stomach is still flowered with stretch marks and extra skin. Just perfect for curious little hands to tug and pull." We can't think of a more beautiful way to put it.

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Love The Extra Skin With All You Have

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Writer, podcaster, and mother Sarah Landry is used to having her life in the public eye, but admitted in this Instagram post that the old her would never have published the photo. But being healthy, fit, and still having her loose postpartum skin inspired her to share it with everyone.

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Sarah said she wanted to share the photo to help other women feel "normal" in their body and "unlearn" what women are told to feel after giving birth.

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It's Okay To Forget The 'Old You'

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Anupa King has watched her body change between two births and still admits that sometimes, she wishes for the body she had before ever having kids. And you know what, that's okay. It's fine to look back fondly, but what's most important is to accept what you have now.

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Anupa is heavy into fitness and sometimes feels like she's not "working hard enough." But in this post, she reminded us all that a postpartum body will never be the same as your old one and that's okay.

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Different Moms Have Different Bodies

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It's one thing to say that all women have different bodies and experience motherhood differently, but it's another thing to see it. Mom Meg Boggs wanted to show the difference so that moms can hopefully stop comparing themselves to the other moms out there.

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Meg reminded her followers that "you're doing a great job, they are doing a great job, and we are all kinda just trying to figure this stuff out." The postpartum body movement is for women of all shapes and sizes.

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The "B" Word Is A Scary One

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Mom-of-one Megan Galbraith spoke the truth when she admitted that the scariest part of her postpartum summer was the "B" word—bathing suit. Women suffer from body confidence in bathing suits whether they're postpartum or not, so baring it all after having a child isn't easy.

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For Megan, she tried endless styles of bikini bottoms to cover up the parts she wasn't confident in until she realized covering up in things that aren't her style wouldn't help her feel confident.

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Being Body Confident Means Being Brave

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For Hayley, being body confident with her postpartum self means mustering up ever ounce of bravery she has. That's because Hayley knows that moms are brave every day because "we give our entire self to our kids—our body, our heart, our soul."

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And while we might not see the changes in our heart and soul we are physically faced with the changes in our body. It's brave to give our bodies away to our kids and it's just as brave to reclaim it.

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You Might Feel More Confident Looking Back

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When Brenda posted this photo, it wasn't a current one. She had taken it months previously when she was only three months postpartum. You couldn't tell in the photo but Brenda was struggling with a mild form of postpartum depression.

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She felt she needed to take this photo to prove she was beautiful but couldn't bring herself to post it until months later. It just shows that the evolution of postpartum acceptance doesn't happen overnight.

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Who Has Time To Worry About It Anyways?

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For Krista Lanning, postpartum body confidence came 2.5 weeks after giving birth. As any new moms know, in those first few weeks (and the next 18 years) you're so busy and exhausted it's hard to take a moment to think about yourself.

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For Krista, the first time she finally looked at her new body she knew it didn't feel like what she was used to. "Who has time to look in the mirror anyways?"

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It's Okay To Be Scared To Fail

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Many postpartum women will eventually return to being active in whatever form makes them feel happy and healthy. For Chelsea, her return to CrossFit was terrifying. It wasn't that she was scared to work out postpartum, but she was scared that she might slip and fall back to a place where she cared more about the numbers on the scale than her health.

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There's a certain freedom that motherhood can have for women but it also adds new pressures. Finding the balance is what is most important.

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C-Section Postpartum Is A Whole New Ballgame

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Mom-of-one Tara Lynn said it best when she wrote: "Birth is birth whether it be vaginally or via c section. So let's stop making other c section mothers feel bad about the method in which our child entered the world. We still did the hard work carrying our child for months and months."

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C-section moms have the scars and bodies to prove their bravery and suffer from the body dysmorphia that all moms do.

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Sweatpants, Hair Tied, Chilling With No Makeup On

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When new mom Sarah Melito posted this photo, she admitted it was taken not long after she looked at herself in the mirror and cried. For Sarah, and many other moms out there, it felt like she didn't even know the body that was looking back at her. It was so different than anything she'd seen beforehand.

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It was the postpartum movement that inspired Sarah to share her ever-changing body in the hope other moms would feel the inspiration she did too.

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You Might Not Always Feel Zen About Your Body

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A big part of accepting a postpartum body can be finding your inner mindfulness and accepting what's inside. It's not just your body that changes as a mom but your goals, stresses, and responsibilities.

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Meg Boggs posted this after completing her own personal mindfulness challenge. She shared that even on days when she doesn't love her body, she knows that the "journey is endless" and that she can struggle and be strong at the same time.

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Pregnancy Set This Mom Free

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While the postpartum body struggle is prevalent in many moms, others see it as a way to free themselves from their past body issues. For Ashley Fox, being postpartum made her realize the magic of her body. She was heavy into fitness and said she "literally tortured myself to fit society's cookie-cutter standard of beauty."

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It was only once her body made her a mother that she finally stopped thinking about the scale and started focusing on the "beautiful masterpiece" that she created.

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You Need To Be Able To Laugh At Yourself

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Many new moms end up worrying about every little thing, including their bodies. For Bethanie Garcia, the only way she could start accepting her postpartum body was to joke about it. She posted this photo and shared: "Felt cute, might wear my mesh undies later."

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Her followers and fellow moms couldn't help but reply that they wish they had the confidence to rock their mesh undies postpartum. Bethanie is proving you can be comfy in your new body and still feel cute.

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Postpartum Families Are Beautiful Too

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Podcaster Sarah Bode shared this candid photo of what her postpartum experience was like. Along with rebuilding her confidence and learning how to be a new mom in a new body, Sarah was like the rest of us and had to deal with normal family dynamics.

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In the middle of the mess, the sleeping husband, and the endless cups of coffee, Sarah found a way to love her postpartum body even if it was yet another thing to learn as a new mom.